Can a woman be not only a wife, but also a business partner? 3 years experience

Women do an excellent job with any job: they cook deliciously, wash dishes cleanly and wash clothes decently.
E. Kaufman

What about women in business? In this article, he described the nuances of working with his wife.

Wife earns more than you

When we started living together, my wife earned more. My business with nightclubs just fell apart there. All my principles at that moment turned into a monkey that beats drums sitting in the skull. Under the influence of such an irritant, you willy-nilly have to look for options and start really working hard.

To paraphrase a quote by Leo Tolstoy:

It is impossible to endure if a person sees that the people around him live better.
Especially if it’s his wife.

Wife spends a lot

The wife helps to earn money when she spends money methodically. At the same time, it is very important to correctly present expenses to the husband so that he sees this as a super-goal.

And let’s go to Thailand – there our child will be able to swim more. Fruits, air are very useful for health.
And let’s buy this course – you wanted this skill, and here are niche teachers. This is worth working for.

When you train with a trainer, he monitors your weight, and you often don’t remember your current working weight, that is, you don’t understand whether you have the right to whine that it’s hard for you:

– Coach: How many more reps could you do?
– I, wearily: “maybe two.”
– And if the Germans come
– Three
– In response, a condescending smile and impudent laughter in the face in the format “are you serious ?!”
Like, this is your usual working weight, it has long been light for you.

Gaslighting

If you want to be unconditionally supported, stroked on the shoulder and listened to sobs, live with your mother. Wife is tough coaching.

Are you seriously tired? Delegate this, and this garbage for 5 minutes. My gym uses similar technologies:

When you train with a trainer, he monitors your weight, and you often don’t remember your current working weight, that is, you don’t understand whether you have the right to whine that it’s hard for you:
– Coach: How many more reps could you do?
– I, wearily: “maybe two.”
– And if the Germans come
– Three
– In response, a condescending smile and impudent laughter in the face in the format “are you serious ?!”
Like, this is your usual working weight, it has long been light for you.

When this happens all the time, you really believe that you can easily do more if you don’t whine.

Wife knows how to think with her head

My wife graduated from the Faculty of Physics and Technology, and no matter how sad it is to admit, she often thinks with her head better than me. I can:

– pile on a bunch of unnecessary work that can easily be given to others.

– take on tasks with the message: “No one can do it better than me. I-I-I.” And in the end: anger, depression, burnout.

– put a phone call in order to confuse the head of employees when it would be necessary to think and formulate normally what you actually want, and most importantly, fuck it. As a result, the call would drop.

The wife works as a fuse against idiocy and protects against burnout. It can play board games all day, and at some point, listening to your moaning, come up with a solution that will save you three days of aggressive figging or bring the result of work to a new level.

Get your wife right. A wife is good for business.